i have been thinking about this a lot lately. i know that i told you that i didn’t know when that shift occurred for me in the christmas letter i wrote you, but i think i have finally figured it out.
do you remember back when we were twenty and i had gotten myself pregnant? i was absolutely terrified to tell you. it wasn’t because i was afraid that you wouldn’t support me. i knew you would. you always had. but it had been such a struggle to adjust to this new chapter in our lives. i had this expectation that college would bring us this incredible freedom to conquer the world together. what i never imagined was that it would bring us freedom from each other. i didn’t want to move on. i didn’t want to open myself up to other people, but eventually i did. and when i discovered that i was pregnant, it was never an option to keep the baby. not by another man. i know that sounds incredibly callous of me. i know that makes me sound like a horrible person. but that was only the beginning of my list of reasons.
that was the moment, lukas flynn. that was when i knew things had shifted for me. when i first recognized that the love i felt for you wasn’t purely platonic anymore. and i couldn’t bear the thought of you being disappointed in me. i couldn’t bear the thought of you thinking that i loved someone else more than i loved you. maybe it wasn’t crystal clear to me then, but it is to me now.